1) Discover yourself: You have to know yourself better before you are 30.know your inbuilt gift and how to harness them for your own benefit and the benefit of the country. Start building a life
2) Discover your purpose in life: you should really find out the reason you were born. Birthday anniversaries are to be celebrated for the reason one was born not the day he was born. If you can’t discover yourself u won’t be stable or relevant. Know yourself people might say you are this and that just believe in yourself.
A gift of a man is very precious to the eye...You have to learn how to apply your gift learn how to position them for relevant learn how to use what you have to solve problems
3) Before you are 30 you should have known what to do to make money: people learn from peoples ignorance .people pay to learn what they don’t know not what they know. So therefore you have to be versatile in knowledge so as to earn a living. - You should know the definition of love before you are 30: because there are unnecessary heart break things due people lack of knowledge on the word love. You must really have known how to approach the right people by being friends with them, getting to know them and then forming a right relationship with them. Learn how to control urself in terms of relationship don’t always go for any things that glitter always have a good reason for any relationship you want to get into. Learn to control your sexual urge because lust is very different from love.Don’t marry a man that can’t control his sexual urge…a man is known for being able to control his urges and also to control his flaws. Marry a right minded man…in marriage you need commitment.
4) Before you are 30 you must have read like 30 books or more than: Also must have written some books. You need to have a library of your own…..save for books not only for material things….give value to ur beauty by investing in your mind...What you read,see,watch have a great influence in ur actions so you have to read good books….
5) You should have a pastor before you are 30: you have to discover him and definitely you will if you put your mind to it.
6) Before you are 30 you should be known for something: ask yourself this...What do you want to be known for??....do you really know what you want to be known for??is there something you are willing to be known for???
7) You need to have a mentor before you are 30: the work of a mentor is to mould your life and to guide you..Don’t be emotional in selecting your mentor when it happens to be your opposite sex.
8) Before you are 30 you must have learnt on how to say no and stand by it: know how to stand and say no many times without feeling guilty...Don’t be a yes yes person. You have to conquer procrastination because it is a lazy mans apology.
You don’t have to beg in harvest u should be prepared earlier in your life to face life.
9) You should be free to use your mind before you are 30: if your life is not going well you have to check the person that has been influencing your life and your thinking and learn to stand and make your decisions individually.
10) Before you are 30 you should have your own bank account: you should imbibe in saving...you should have more than one bank account and tag them for each of their various use for example personal account, family account, business account etc
11) You should have investment before you are 30: example like buying shares, oil business, unilever investor, and other legal youthful business for future purpose. Because a man should be able to feed other people before they are 30.
12) Before you are 30 you should have developed stability of character: you should be taking for your word and also be trusted by what you alter. Always mean your words, say what u believe in and what you do not the other way round.
13) You should be able to choose your friends before you are 30: know the kind of people you keep around you. The kind of friends you keep also have a great influence on you it is said “birds of the same feathers flop together”. Be wise when choosing your friends and pray over it.
14) Before you are 3o learn a professional dinning ethicate: you should have known how to make use of dinning tools in eating before you are 30.a little story for you...There is a man he was called for a job interview but due to his inability to dine properly with his dinning tools he was disqualified. You will be asking yourself why did this disqualify this man.The answer is he will be meeting several important fellows in his field of job and going for lunch or dinner with clients is also in his field of business.
15) You should be able to define your vision in one sentence before you are 30: many people don’t really know their vision and that has been a problem for so many people. To be a man you should have been able to define your purpose and your vision. But if you haven’t you have to rethink and place your decisions right.
16) You should know how to drive a car before 30: it is very important to know how to drive yourself to where ever you are going to. This is very important as a youth.
17) Before you are 30 you must have the financial ability to feed someone else: this shows you a ready to marry and take care of your partner and unborn kids and also to help in family issues as well.
18) Before you are 30 you should be born again know how to love GOD: there is more to a life of a man than physical. Seek yea first the kingdom of God. What shall it profit a man when you gain the whole world and lose your soul in heaven? Taught of good not of evil to give you an expected end...to succeed in life you need GOD’S favors and blessing to guide you through…