Polyamory… Is This The Future Of Love And Relationships?

What is Polyamory? Polyamory is the practice of or desire for intimate relationships with more than one partner, with the knowledge of all partners.
Is Monogamy going out of style? My answer to this would be no, but i also strongly disagree with the “one size fits all” mentality we as a society have regarding relationships. Some people aren’t suited for the typical monogamous relationship, but because of our “culture” it’s almost an abomination to do differently, so people are trying to fit square pegs into round holes when it comes to relationships.
To be clear, Polyamory is not the same thing as being in an open relationship, Being Polyamorous means having multiple relationships -there isn’t that one central relationship or partner as in an open relationship. It is also not the same thing as Swinging.
Zinnia from Poly Advice puts it like this:

“Polyamory recognizes that love isn’t a zero-sum game and it doesn’t have to be exclusive or fit certain frameworks to be deep, healthy, and fulfilling. It doesn’t assume that someone you click with sexually needs to be the only person you have sex with; or that someone you click with romantically needs to also be the person you live with, and things like that. Polyamory lets each relationship stand on its own terms, define its own boundaries, and meet the needs that it is able to meet, without requiring that a relationship include certain things (like living together) just because it includes other things (like sex).”

Hollywood’s famous Polyamorist, Nico Tortella when quizzed about Polyamory said:
“The fact of the matter is, we’ve only been shown one story since basically the beginning of time and that’s man, woman, and family — and that’s it.”
The idea of a “The One” is a big deal. Most people grow up expecting to meet that one person that is meant for them. We’re taught to desire and seek that one other person, that “soulmate“ that will make us whole and happy. And supposedly, when we find that person, we will no longer have desires for others.
Dean Spade calls this type of thinking the “romance myth” – the heterosexual monogamous romance that all women should naturally desire. We are in a culture that teaches us that monogamy is right and natural, monogamy is often not a conscious choice for people, but more of a default.
I’m not saying everybody should be polyamorous, but I believe in finding what’s best for you and what works for you and your partner in YOUR OWN relationship. Just as people are born gay, you can argue that some people are born non-monogamous. Some people find comfort in being polyamorous after having difficulty being in monogamous relationships.
Discovering you have the capacity to love more than one person doesn’t mean you have problems, it might just be who you are. Polyamory isn’t for everybody, but neither is Monogamy.

Polyamory… Is This The Future Of Love And Relationships?

What is Polyamory? Polyamory is the practice of or desire for intimate relationships with more than one partner, with the knowledge of all partners.
Is Monogamy going out of style? My answer to this would be no, but i also strongly disagree with the “one size fits all” mentality we as a society have regarding relationships. Some people aren’t suited for the typical monogamous relationship, but because of our “culture” it’s almost an abomination to do differently, so people are trying to fit square pegs into round holes when it comes to relationships.
To be clear, Polyamory is not the same thing as being in an open relationship, Being Polyamorous means having multiple relationships -there isn’t that one central relationship or partner as in an open relationship. It is also not the same thing as Swinging.
Zinnia from Poly Advice puts it like this:

“Polyamory recognizes that love isn’t a zero-sum game and it doesn’t have to be exclusive or fit certain frameworks to be deep, healthy, and fulfilling. It doesn’t assume that someone you click with sexually needs to be the only person you have sex with; or that someone you click with romantically needs to also be the person you live with, and things like that. Polyamory lets each relationship stand on its own terms, define its own boundaries, and meet the needs that it is able to meet, without requiring that a relationship include certain things (like living together) just because it includes other things (like sex).”

Hollywood’s famous Polyamorist, Nico Tortella when quizzed about Polyamory said:
“The fact of the matter is, we’ve only been shown one story since basically the beginning of time and that’s man, woman, and family — and that’s it.”
The idea of a “The One” is a big deal. Most people grow up expecting to meet that one person that is meant for them. We’re taught to desire and seek that one other person, that “soulmate“ that will make us whole and happy. And supposedly, when we find that person, we will no longer have desires for others.
Dean Spade calls this type of thinking the “romance myth” – the heterosexual monogamous romance that all women should naturally desire. We are in a culture that teaches us that monogamy is right and natural, monogamy is often not a conscious choice for people, but more of a default.
I’m not saying everybody should be polyamorous, but I believe in finding what’s best for you and what works for you and your partner in YOUR OWN relationship. Just as people are born gay, you can argue that some people are born non-monogamous. Some people find comfort in being polyamorous after having difficulty being in monogamous relationships.
Discovering you have the capacity to love more than one person doesn’t mean you have problems, it might just be who you are. Polyamory isn’t for everybody, but neither is Monogamy.

Angie Hamouie sets to marry her Degree on May

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Na so! trust them with funny stunts. Angie Hamouie is getting married... to her medical degree.

The 27-year-old lady from Texas is graduating from the University of Texas Medical Branch at Galveston in June and she’s celebrating by throwing what she has dubbed a “grand wedding.”

There’s going to be a wedding-style dress, a dance with the diploma and, of course, grand wedding cake. She created a website on wedding website The Knot to announce her union with her M.D.

“This was such a big deal for her, because it was the culmination of three degrees and nine years of higher education,” Hamouie’s Knot page reads. “Her match represented everything she had worked toward. Angie realized this graduation would only happen once in her life. She wondered, why is it that no one really celebrates their graduation? And if she threw a party, how could she convey that this party was a Big Deal?”

So, after her “enmatchment,” Hamouie planned a grand wedding. The party is set for May 13, and she’s invited friends and family to come join her on her "big" day.

“I didn’t think folks would take this party seriously because it was ‘only’ a graduation,” Hamouie told The Huffington Post. “I wanted to convey that this milestone is a huge deal for me, and I thought the best way to do that would be by pretending to marry my degree.”

Angie Hamouie sets to marry her Degree on May

Skazyupdate

Na so! trust them with funny stunts. Angie Hamouie is getting married... to her medical degree.

The 27-year-old lady from Texas is graduating from the University of Texas Medical Branch at Galveston in June and she’s celebrating by throwing what she has dubbed a “grand wedding.”

There’s going to be a wedding-style dress, a dance with the diploma and, of course, grand wedding cake. She created a website on wedding website The Knot to announce her union with her M.D.

“This was such a big deal for her, because it was the culmination of three degrees and nine years of higher education,” Hamouie’s Knot page reads. “Her match represented everything she had worked toward. Angie realized this graduation would only happen once in her life. She wondered, why is it that no one really celebrates their graduation? And if she threw a party, how could she convey that this party was a Big Deal?”

So, after her “enmatchment,” Hamouie planned a grand wedding. The party is set for May 13, and she’s invited friends and family to come join her on her "big" day.

“I didn’t think folks would take this party seriously because it was ‘only’ a graduation,” Hamouie told The Huffington Post. “I wanted to convey that this milestone is a huge deal for me, and I thought the best way to do that would be by pretending to marry my degree.”

The football player Yobo and family.....SOoooooooooooo Cute

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Adaeze Yobo has revealed the face of her cute daughter, Lxine Dumlesi Yobo. The former beauty queen who welcomed her first daughter with Yobo in February, took to her page to share some beautiful photos of her baby girl. More pictures...

The football player Yobo and family.....SOoooooooooooo Cute

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Adaeze Yobo has revealed the face of her cute daughter, Lxine Dumlesi Yobo. The former beauty queen who welcomed her first daughter with Yobo in February, took to her page to share some beautiful photos of her baby girl. More pictures...

Common lies told in a relationship

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After writing this article on Common Lies Men Tell, I got requests (from men of course!) to spill on common lies women tell, after all, no be only man dey lie. I'm a born Libran and that means I like to balance the scales. No time for ojoro here, let's talk about some common lies women tell too!!!

I'M ON MY PERIOD

Women have been known to use this to get out of complicating situations. Hubby wants some action but she's tired,  so she says, "I'm on my period". Hopefully the man will turn away. Does she want just  cuddling and "romancing" but does not want to take it to the next level? "I'm on my period". Guys, even though the chances of this being a lie is true, respect this lie and STOP. Trust some guys some will tell you and so lets continue.

I CAME

If you don't know what this means, then you have no business knowing what it is. After giving her action, left right centre, bursting all your Kung-Fu moves then panting and sweating you turn to her and ask, "did you come?" Bros, if you have to ask, then she probably did not come. Na only you waka come. But of course, a lot of women would rather say yes than bruise a man's ego.

JUST 5 MINUTES

I cannot count how many times my husband has asked if I'm ready and I respond with "Just 5 minutes". Guys, don't take it literally. Don't set a timer and start counting down...give an extra 15 minutes. This is a little white lie that is not supposed to hurt a fly.It is not really cool.

AGE

A lot of women will not even bother telling the truth about this, but it all depends on who is asking. She might throw around "I'm in my early thirties" or "mid twenties"...but never "I'm tatyfife"! LOL. Especially in public!  You will have to hunt down that original birth certificate.

I'M OK

If you know that you have erred yet you ask a woman and she say's she's OK,  "No Problem"...don't believe all is well. Hopefully you have an intuition. That she say's she's Okay does not mean she is. Watch her body language.

These are a few white lies women tell, what other ones do you know?pls share

Common lies told in a relationship

Skazyupdate

After writing this article on Common Lies Men Tell, I got requests (from men of course!) to spill on common lies women tell, after all, no be only man dey lie. I'm a born Libran and that means I like to balance the scales. No time for ojoro here, let's talk about some common lies women tell too!!!

I'M ON MY PERIOD

Women have been known to use this to get out of complicating situations. Hubby wants some action but she's tired,  so she says, "I'm on my period". Hopefully the man will turn away. Does she want just  cuddling and "romancing" but does not want to take it to the next level? "I'm on my period". Guys, even though the chances of this being a lie is true, respect this lie and STOP. Trust some guys some will tell you and so lets continue.

I CAME

If you don't know what this means, then you have no business knowing what it is. After giving her action, left right centre, bursting all your Kung-Fu moves then panting and sweating you turn to her and ask, "did you come?" Bros, if you have to ask, then she probably did not come. Na only you waka come. But of course, a lot of women would rather say yes than bruise a man's ego.

JUST 5 MINUTES

I cannot count how many times my husband has asked if I'm ready and I respond with "Just 5 minutes". Guys, don't take it literally. Don't set a timer and start counting down...give an extra 15 minutes. This is a little white lie that is not supposed to hurt a fly.It is not really cool.

AGE

A lot of women will not even bother telling the truth about this, but it all depends on who is asking. She might throw around "I'm in my early thirties" or "mid twenties"...but never "I'm tatyfife"! LOL. Especially in public!  You will have to hunt down that original birth certificate.

I'M OK

If you know that you have erred yet you ask a woman and she say's she's OK,  "No Problem"...don't believe all is well. Hopefully you have an intuition. That she say's she's Okay does not mean she is. Watch her body language.

These are a few white lies women tell, what other ones do you know?pls share

Making introduction to the woman of your dreams

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The way you introduce yourself to a girl can go a long way in determining how she perceives you and if she will agree to a relationship with you.
Of course, you can come back and make a good second impression but it is always way easier with making a good first impression. Making a good first impression will not only make you look like someone every girl will be lucky to meet but you’d also exude charm and confidence.
Why Should You Make A Good first Impression?
People and women in particular can tell within the first minute of meeting you if they want to have a deeper relationship with you. What this means is that you have about a minute to make a woman decide if you’re worth spending time with.So you have to do your best to really impress her that instance and believe you me you will win a place in her heart.
Introducing Yourself To A Girl You’re Attracted To
It is difficult to know exactly what a woman wants because they are mostly picky. The good part of this however is that women know almost immediately if they are interested in you or not. If you seem weird to them by the way you approach them, that may be the end of it.
Be Confident
Confidence is the first most important key. If you’re able to walk up to a woman and confidently introduce yourself to her, you’ve pretty much covered half of it. Every woman wants a confident man and the moment you seem like one, she will be interested.
Showing that you’re nervous when you walk up to her will only give you up as an uninteresting person. Walk up to her with confidence and she will want to have some of it.
Engage Her Mind
Women want men that can make them think. If you walk up to her and strike up a conversation with her in a way and manner that will make her question herself, you’re definitely on the right track. One trick that can help you is overhearing a topic that you’re familiar with and giving her an opinion from a different angle. Walk away the minute you do this and you’d strike a chord in her mind.
Discover A Common Interest
Determining a common interest is probably the best way to introduce yourself to a woman. Show her you share something in common and her mind will probably wonder what else the two of you share in common. This is by far one of the best ways to introduce yourself to a girl. It basically starts off your first impression by showing her you already have something in common. It’ll make her wonder what else you two have in common.
Look for clues such as a book she’s reading and tell her you’ve read it before and ask for her opinion. You definitely have to be honest with it of course.

Walk Away Without Telling Her Your Name
While you may think doing this defeats the purpose of introducing yourself to her, but the truth is it works. If you make small conversation with a woman you approached and walk away without introducing yourself, she’s going to want to know more about you.
Avoid Using A Pick-up Line
Using a pick-up line on a woman you’re interested in may most likely make her laugh and turn away from you. This is because they don’t make good first impressions as they have little or nothing to do with what you think about her. Avoid using them whenever possible.
Be Patient
It sometimes take women a while for them to realise that they are interested in talking to you. If you try introducing yourself and she doesn’t seem interested, walk away and exercise some patience. You might be surprised to find a Facebook message later on which is an indication that she has been thinking about you.
Be Honest
If all your subtle moves fail, being out rightly honest won’t fail you. You can simply walk up to her and tell her in plain words how you feel. Something like ” I know you’d find this weird, but I couldn’t help staring at you and I thought I’d come over to introduce myself. My name is…”
The reason why this technique is a good one is because it allows her see how honest you are. Even though it is quite risky, it can certainly pay well.

Making introduction to the woman of your dreams

Skazyupdate

The way you introduce yourself to a girl can go a long way in determining how she perceives you and if she will agree to a relationship with you.
Of course, you can come back and make a good second impression but it is always way easier with making a good first impression. Making a good first impression will not only make you look like someone every girl will be lucky to meet but you’d also exude charm and confidence.
Why Should You Make A Good first Impression?
People and women in particular can tell within the first minute of meeting you if they want to have a deeper relationship with you. What this means is that you have about a minute to make a woman decide if you’re worth spending time with.So you have to do your best to really impress her that instance and believe you me you will win a place in her heart.
Introducing Yourself To A Girl You’re Attracted To
It is difficult to know exactly what a woman wants because they are mostly picky. The good part of this however is that women know almost immediately if they are interested in you or not. If you seem weird to them by the way you approach them, that may be the end of it.
Be Confident
Confidence is the first most important key. If you’re able to walk up to a woman and confidently introduce yourself to her, you’ve pretty much covered half of it. Every woman wants a confident man and the moment you seem like one, she will be interested.
Showing that you’re nervous when you walk up to her will only give you up as an uninteresting person. Walk up to her with confidence and she will want to have some of it.
Engage Her Mind
Women want men that can make them think. If you walk up to her and strike up a conversation with her in a way and manner that will make her question herself, you’re definitely on the right track. One trick that can help you is overhearing a topic that you’re familiar with and giving her an opinion from a different angle. Walk away the minute you do this and you’d strike a chord in her mind.
Discover A Common Interest
Determining a common interest is probably the best way to introduce yourself to a woman. Show her you share something in common and her mind will probably wonder what else the two of you share in common. This is by far one of the best ways to introduce yourself to a girl. It basically starts off your first impression by showing her you already have something in common. It’ll make her wonder what else you two have in common.
Look for clues such as a book she’s reading and tell her you’ve read it before and ask for her opinion. You definitely have to be honest with it of course.

Adorable photo of will smith and wife

When you are with the right person you wont seize smiling oh......I admire you guys ...Kudos

Adorable photo of will smith and wife

When you are with the right person you wont seize smiling oh......I admire you guys ...Kudos

5 Signs You And Your Partner Have A Love Connection

At the onset of a relationship, it’s quite hard to determine if any form of love connection exists between you and your partner.

You may actually be questioning if any connection exists or if they have the same level of commitment as you in the relationship. Perhaps it could be that the two of you are already having sex but you don’t know if it’s just that or if there’s more to what you have.

Rather than being concerned as to whether you and your partner have a real connection, it’s best to consider how deep of a connection the two of you have. Or think of the a types of connections partners usually have which could be social, physical, mental, spiritual and emotional. In how many of these areas do you connect with your partner and how strong is the connection?
Check out 5 things that show you and your partner have a connection.
Building Social Connection

The way you and your partner relate to each other socially and with other people individually can go a long way in telling you if you both have a connection. The things you share in common such as hobbies and lifestyle go a long way in fostering your connection to your partner socially. How much do you enjoy spending time with family and friends? And Do you both enjoy participating in the activities you share in common? The social connection can help determine how you relate with your partner. Evaluate how you relate with each other and other people. That can help determine if you both have a love connection.
Undeniable Chemistry

There should be some form of attraction physically as this may be the only connection you have initially. If you find your relationship lacking in other areas, chances are you may be worried if it’s only physical connection that exists. It’s cool to be connected physically but there should be more to your relationship, else you may feel insecure.
You Think Alik
If your thoughts and interests are similar, chances are there’s a love connection. It can be quite boring for a medical Doctor to explain medical terms to a linguist and this may cause either of you to become bored. Getting someone that matches you intellectually can help create a love connection through similar interests and enthralling conversations.
Connecting From An Emotional Perspective

If you and your partner connect emotionally, it is an indication that both of you possess the ability and are willing to share your feelings with each other. These feelings include intimate ones such as fear, sadness, shame and loneliness. Vulnerability with your partner is an indication that your relationship is developing and if otherwise, you still have some work to do. It may also be that you are dating someone that is not expressive. These things may be normal at the beginning of a relationship with nothing more than ecstatic and intense feelings which are most likely induced by feel-good hormones as a result of falling in love which may fade with time. Strong emotional connections are mostly built with time and a sizable amount of effort.
It is important that there is some form of reciprocity when it comes to emotions in every relationship. Having an intense feeling towards your partner and not getting the same back means there’s a connection missing for you to have a healthy relationship. It must also be reciprocal. Encourage open conversations which can help you both have real emotional connection.
You Feel You’re Meant For Each Other

This one may depend on your spiritual beliefs or faith but could still be important in determining if you have a connection with your partner. It is quite common for people to feel that fate has a hand in bringing them together and if you feel this way, it could point to a love connection. There may however be other areas in which you and your partner should have some form of connection especially if you’re out for a long term relationship. The better the connection you have with your partner, the better the chance of you having a fulfilling and successful relationship.

5 Signs You And Your Partner Have A Love Connection

At the onset of a relationship, it’s quite hard to determine if any form of love connection exists between you and your partner.

You may actually be questioning if any connection exists or if they have the same level of commitment as you in the relationship. Perhaps it could be that the two of you are already having sex but you don’t know if it’s just that or if there’s more to what you have.

Actresses can have a happy home, I'm an example - Mercy Johnson

Actresses can have a happy home, mother of two Mercy Johnson Okojie says in a new interview with Leadership. She also talked about what causes high rate of divorce among celebs. Read below...

There is a general notion that actresses do not make good wives. Do you agree with this submission?
Well, I can only speak from my own perspective and when I say my perspective, I mean from my personal experiences, marriage and relationship with my husband. One of the biggest lies anyone can tell himself/herself is using one or more random experiences to judge and stereotype others. We all have our different stories to tell. I have two children for my husband today and he has not stopped talking about how down-to-earth I was yet I am an actress; not just any actresses. I had a large following at that time yet I did not go around pouting my lips or playing the snub.

My husband later confessed to me that for him, it was love at first sight but that did not stop him from asking me to cook for him the first day I set foot in his house. At first, I was stunned that a Nigerian man was asking me to enter his kitchen to cook him a meal. A part of me whispered to me that perhaps, he was not aware of who I was and when I said to him: ‘You must be joking. My name is Mercy Johnson’. What shocked me even more was his response when he said: ‘I know’.

 

Rather than take offence, I was drawn closer to him. We have been married since 2011 and we love each other to bits till date and have consciously decided to spend the rest of our lives together. As I said earlier, I am an actress who is correcting the rigid stand that actresses cannot have happy homes when they get married. Also, bear in mind that there are several Nigerian actresses like me who are happily married. Having a happy marriage is a choice a woman has to make. When you decide to have a happy marriage, you focus your thoughts, actions, words, work and everything else around protecting that happiness.

What do you think is responsible for the high divorce rate among celebrities?
In marriage, you must have trust and you must also have love. The moment you lose these two, then it is just a matter of time before you embark on a calamitous countdown towards the end of your marriage. My relationship with my husband has been very special. He is not just my husband or father of my children. He is my friend.

Apart from love and trust, what other secrets would you attribute to the stability of your marriage?
I don’t even have to think about it. It is honesty. I remember the words of my pastor to me even before we got married. He advised me never to have a marriage built on lies and I listened. I don’t lie to my husband. We have agreed to tell the truth to each other regardless of how painful or scary it might be. I remember one instance when I found myself crying when I had to tell him the truth. That day, I had attended an event wearing a lovely dress that had a slit but unfortunately, at that event, the paparazzi captured a wrong image of me. I picked up my phone and I don’t think I have to tell you who I called first. My husband, of course, and guess what? I was crying and sobbing even before I started talking to him because I felt really bad about it. Rather than lie to him, I told him the complete truth and it helped in no small measure. I remember him asking how bad it was and I remember telling him that it was really bad. I sent him the photo and he consoled me.

 That is what a husband who is also a friend does. He did not rub it in my face, insult me, make me feel bad or dent my self-esteem. He was there for me when I needed him and he has not stopped till date. This is one of the reasons I do not hide anything from him. He loves me just as passionately and as fiercely as I love him and I have no doubt in my mind that our marriage was ordained. God had a hand in it and that is why everything just works out between us. That is the only thing I can consider the secret of our love story, which continues to blossom. I have two children, an amazing husband and millions of fans who have held my back over the years and of course, God who has watched over my affairs from the very first day I arrived in this world till this moment.

Actresses can have a happy home, I'm an example - Mercy Johnson

Actresses can have a happy home, mother of two Mercy Johnson Okojie says in a new interview with Leadership. She also talked about what causes high rate of divorce among celebs. Read below...

There is a general notion that actresses do not make good wives. Do you agree with this submission?
Well, I can only speak from my own perspective and when I say my perspective, I mean from my personal experiences, marriage and relationship with my husband. One of the biggest lies anyone can tell himself/herself is using one or more random experiences to judge and stereotype others. We all have our different stories to tell. I have two children for my husband today and he has not stopped talking about how down-to-earth I was yet I am an actress; not just any actresses. I had a large following at that time yet I did not go around pouting my lips or playing the snub.

My husband later confessed to me that for him, it was love at first sight but that did not stop him from asking me to cook for him the first day I set foot in his house. At first, I was stunned that a Nigerian man was asking me to enter his kitchen to cook him a meal. A part of me whispered to me that perhaps, he was not aware of who I was and when I said to him: ‘You must be joking. My name is Mercy Johnson’. What shocked me even more was his response when he said: ‘I know’.

 

Rather than take offence, I was drawn closer to him. We have been married since 2011 and we love each other to bits till date and have consciously decided to spend the rest of our lives together. As I said earlier, I am an actress who is correcting the rigid stand that actresses cannot have happy homes when they get married. Also, bear in mind that there are several Nigerian actresses like me who are happily married. Having a happy marriage is a choice a woman has to make. When you decide to have a happy marriage, you focus your thoughts, actions, words, work and everything else around protecting that happiness.

What do you think is responsible for the high divorce rate among celebrities?
In marriage, you must have trust and you must also have love. The moment you lose these two, then it is just a matter of time before you embark on a calamitous countdown towards the end of your marriage. My relationship with my husband has been very special. He is not just my husband or father of my children. He is my friend.

Apart from love and trust, what other secrets would you attribute to the stability of your marriage?
I don’t even have to think about it. It is honesty. I remember the words of my pastor to me even before we got married. He advised me never to have a marriage built on lies and I listened. I don’t lie to my husband. We have agreed to tell the truth to each other regardless of how painful or scary it might be. I remember one instance when I found myself crying when I had to tell him the truth. That day, I had attended an event wearing a lovely dress that had a slit but unfortunately, at that event, the paparazzi captured a wrong image of me. I picked up my phone and I don’t think I have to tell you who I called first. My husband, of course, and guess what? I was crying and sobbing even before I started talking to him because I felt really bad about it. Rather than lie to him, I told him the complete truth and it helped in no small measure. I remember him asking how bad it was and I remember telling him that it was really bad. I sent him the photo and he consoled me.

 That is what a husband who is also a friend does. He did not rub it in my face, insult me, make me feel bad or dent my self-esteem. He was there for me when I needed him and he has not stopped till date. This is one of the reasons I do not hide anything from him. He loves me just as passionately and as fiercely as I love him and I have no doubt in my mind that our marriage was ordained. God had a hand in it and that is why everything just works out between us. That is the only thing I can consider the secret of our love story, which continues to blossom. I have two children, an amazing husband and millions of fans who have held my back over the years and of course, God who has watched over my affairs from the very first day I arrived in this world till this moment.

Mercy Aigbe & Husband Cuddle In New Photo

She wrote;

Mercy Aigbe & Husband Cuddle In New Photo

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Tonto dikes dude unveiled...

#HINTS Magazine: Tonto Dike’s MYSTERY MAN Unveiled And Lots Of other Juicy Reads In New Edition Of Hints Magazine

Hints Magazine, the premium romance, real life and entertainment magazine is back to the stables, with so much more entertaining contents than before.

The February issue of the multiple award-winning magazine has a mind-blowing expose on the mystery man in Tonto Dike’s life. Yes, find out all the juicy details, including the Flavour, Sandra and Anna Banner love tryst.

Filled with an array of love stories, features, columns and various relationship articles, it is your must-read for the month and the best news is you can get a copy for as low as N500.

About Juliet Gbemudu
Creative junkie/fashion enthusiast, she captivates readers through her good command of english & the very interesting contents of her writing. Follow Juliet @fabdutchess on instagram & twitter

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#HINTS Magazine: Tonto Dike’s MYSTERY MAN Unveiled And Lots Of other Juicy Reads In New Edition Of Hints Magazine

Hints Magazine, the premium romance, real life and entertainment magazine is back to the stables, with so much more entertaining contents than before.

The February issue of the multiple award-winning magazine has a mind-blowing expose on the mystery man in Tonto Dike’s life. Yes, find out all the juicy details, including the Flavour, Sandra and Anna Banner love tryst.

Filled with an array of love stories, features, columns and various relationship articles, it is your must-read for the month and the best news is you can get a copy for as low as N500.

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