Touching story of a teenage girl abused by couple

A teenage girl who was s3xually abused by a married couple has spoken out about the on-going pain the abuse has caused.

The young woman, who cannot be named for legal reasons, was abused by the pair for three years between late 1989 to early 1991.

The 62-year-old man and the 54-year-old woman first had sexual intercourse with the victim after she babysat for them at their home in East Lismore, the Northern Star reported.

The girl, who would often stay the night at the couple's home after babysitting, was just 13 at the time.

During sentencing in the Lismore District Court on Friday, the victim shared how she fell victim to the grooming and sexual assault.

'I was told I was special, and I should feel love from the family,' she said.

'I honestly thought I was being loved in this sick twisted abuse of two adults.

‘If your man is cheating on you, look at your four closest friends’ – Pastor Robert Burale tells women

Kenyan City pastor and motivational speaker, Robert Burale, has spoken out against infidelity in relationships.
During his recent appearance on ‘Mancave Discussion’ on Switch TV, the pastor noted that women are their own worst enemies, and added that if their spouses are unfaithful they should suspect their closest friends.

“I blame both men and women because the man is cheating with another woman. Women have become their own worst enemies. Chances are very high that if your man is cheating on you look at your four closest friends.

“I’ll tell you that without fear of contradiction or batting an eyelid. The person who is the most dangerous is the one you trust. It is the one you run to and say these are the issues I’m going through. She is the one who befriends you to cover up what she is doing with your husband. Not always but in most cases yes,”

How to make a guy crush on you

There are times you like a guy and you have no idea how to get him to notice, especially that official or busy guy. Find below ways to make that man you fancy notice you.
1.  Make Eye Contacts
When you catch the eye of that guy you are crushing on, hold it for a while but not too long so you do not look creepy. You can even drop a quick smile too. Ensure it is not too short and it is not too long, just enough for him to get to notice you.
Also, When you wear something that makes you feel great, it boosts your confidence and makes you look more attractive. Choose something that enhances your best features and flatters your shape. This will draw his attention.

2.  Make a good first impression
The first impression they have of you will go a long way, ensure you have a good first impression. If you catch his eye and he comes up to you to start a conversation, make sure you smile – practice your best smile if you have to, be friendly and flirty.
Let him know you have an interest in him. However, make sure not to come out too strong at this point. Avoid any negativity and keep the conversation light and fun.
You should also take your time to study him because people might be different at a close study that who they are from afar. This helps you to stay out of trouble.
3.  Show off your personality
Confidence makes you look attractive and interesting. To show you’re confident, stand up tall, look people in the eye, and smile a lot. Additionally, focus on your talents and accomplishments so you feel good about yourself.
Furthermore, when you are having discussions with him, smile and speak confidently. You can talk about things you are passionate about, this will be impressive and make him notice you.

I am in love with my friends Dad

Relationship blogger and adviser, Joro Olumofin has shared the story of a lady who is deeply in love with her friend’s father.
She has been dating the man for years and according to reports, they haven’t had s*x.
She is concerned about telling her friend as she plots to settle down with the father in the nearest future.

 What do you advise?

How to cure smoking addiction

How to cure addiction to smoking

 Addiction is a psychological and physical inability to stop consuming a chemical, drug, activity, or substance, even though it is causing psychological and physical harm. The term addiction does not only refer to dependence on substances such as heroin or cocaine.

Smoking has really been overlooked as a negative addiction when you can’t control it any longer and when you are bent on just smoking rather than do something lucrative with that time you spend smoking. The worst thing that can happen to anybody is becoming addicted to something hereby losing his sense of creativity and life entirely. When I mean loose life I mean a circumstance when you are living but not living why because you are involved with something that doesn’t add to your life but rather takes away a lot from you as an individual on constant. Smoking usually has a dangerous effect on the lungs.

Recently a lot of people have been diagnosed with lung failure due to getting addicted to smoking. I have made my research to help the community on how to cure addiction in smoking because it is now a cankerworm that has gotten hold of many of our men and women thereby affecting their ability to do more in assisting there community.

According to Medicalnewstoday website, Tobacco use and exposure to second-hand smoke are responsible for more than 480,000 deaths each year in the United States, according to the American Lung Association. This is really bad all this occurred because of people getting addicted to it. You have to make a strong decision and keep to it. In other to quit an addiction all you need to do is make a strong decision on when and how to quit without any further delay. You have to stop or look out for things that Trigger it. In curing addiction, you have to get back to the root of the problem in order to solve it properly. So many addictions come from attending parties, bars, etc. Mostly so many men, when stressed up, may be from a very difficult moment in the home the resort to smoking to help forget the problem. Let me tell you the fact you smoke during problems doesn’t solve your problem rather it can increase health cases when you smoke addictively. Avoid taking alcohol because it can trigger the urge to smoke is better you take soft drinks. During this therapy period, you are expected to avoid anything that will make you want to smoke.

1.     Self-determination: In life, determination have been one of the striking force pushing mankind on a daily bases. If you decide to quit smoking and still go back to doing or carrying activities just as I mentioned in number one of this article you are not yet determined for change. Lot of decisions made by humans come from the mind and also that is brought to the physical as a result of what the mind thought out. Try to follow up on every measure that will help on the way by staying positive and determined.

A man assisted friend financially to get married

look at how generous people can be to there friend and loved one. A man took to twitter to share on how the aided a friend of theirs to get married to his dream lady with there financial help.
People that consider people's happiness at all times will always see great things in there life.

Trending outfits for ladies

 However, sometimes all you need to create a gorgeous outfit that you’ve never worn before is a bit of inspiration. Also, you don’t necessarily have to purchase all new pieces when you want to wear something fresh. In fact, you can easily use the trendy basics you already own to put together a fresh outfit that looks brand new. Therefore, all you need are some examples of trendy, high-fashion outfits to spark your own fashion sense.

 Because it includes several different warm, trendy basics, this look is perfect for the cooler months of autumn. Also, these basics, including heeled ankle booties, shiny leggings, and a thick patterned scarf, tie together to create a classic look that is both fashion-forward and casual.

 In order to take advantage of a major autumn trend, try a long, off-the-shoulder sweater. For example, this look pairs a gorgeous long sweater with distressed skinny jeans and lace-up heels to create a relaxed look with a bit of added sass.

For more great out fit visit>https://www.herstylecode.com/beauty/incredible-outfit-ideas-try-now/

13 methods that can reduce erectile dysfunction

1. Focus on foreplay

 

Simple lifestyle changes can help to improve erectile dysfunction and reduce anxiety. Some men do think that penetration is the only important thing this is really wrong in that it is not the only thing that counts in Sex. Erectile dysfunction is an incentive to try new methods that work better for your partner.

Foreplay includes touching, kissing, and oral sex. Making foreplay last can improve the sexual experience for everyone involved.
Foreplay may be especially important for women. A 2017 study found that very few women — around 18 percent — experience an orgasm from intercourse alone. According to the same findings, 36.6 percent of women said that clitoral stimulation was necessary for orgasm during intercourse.

2. Try the start-stop technique

Men who want to last longer during intercourse can try the start-stop technique. This technique involves quitting an ejaculation each time it is about to come. Do breath deeply and start again slowly when you stop it delays ejaculation as long as possible.
This method can train the body to hold off ejaculation and help a man to feel more comfortable with not ejaculating, even during intense sexual activity.

3. Try something new

Sexual pleasure thrives in an environment of passion and excitement.
If a person has been with one partner for a long time, sex can begin to feel routine, and it may seem increasingly difficult to feel excited, remain focused, or please the partner.
It may help to try a new sexual activity or position or to have sex in a different location. Also, talking about sexual fantasies can make sex more exciting.
In addition, it can help to do something new with a partner outside the bedroom, such as:

• cooking together
• kayaking or hiking
• going to a museum
• seeing a new band
• trying a new sport
• going for a picnic
• traveling to places

Kim Kardashian uploads an honest account of living with psoriasis (photos)

Kim Kardashian has been living with psoriasis on a constant basis for the past eight years.
The 38-year-old star has addressed the autoimmune condition on her TV show, Keeping Up With The Kardashians, but on Thursday she went much more in-depth for an essay shared on her sister Kourtney's website Poosh.
Turns out the mother-of-three first experienced the condition in her twenties, but it came back more strongly in her thirties and this year it was at its all-time worst.
'Earlier this year is when it got extremely bad - it covered my whole face and a majority of my entire body,' the KKW Beauty mogul said.
Kim's essay is long and she starts at the very beginning of it all.
'Today I’m sharing with Poosh my journey with the autoimmune conditions psoriasis and psoriatic arthritis, including what’s worked for me and how I’ve adjusted my life since being diagnosed,' started the wife of Kanye West.
She then shared that her mother Kris Jenner had psoriasis but she was able to treat it with UV rays from a tanning bed, which Kim is not able to do.
'It’s been 13 years since I experienced my first psoriasis flare-up... I am the only child my mom passed down her autoimmune issue to. Lucky me, lol,' she stated.
'When I was 25, I had my first psoriasis flare-up. I got a common cold, and since psoriasis is an autoimmune condition, this triggered it. It was all over my stomach and legs.
'Luckily, in my apartment complex at the time, my neighbor was a dermatologist.

A lady cooks a stolen goat for the sake of love

A Nigerian lady took to Twitter to narrate how her love for her boyfriend while still in the University made her cook a stolen goat for him and his friends.
@dejokecarew said she made pepper soup, peppered meat and stew for 10 people while being hailed as “our wife”. Her boyfriend however went on to marry his ex-girlfriend.
Read the tweets below;

Peter Okoye transformed teeth

He wrote; “But on a serious Note: if you know that I have kissed you before! Please come and ask for a refund. I can’t shout! Swear down! This is A life Changing Experience. This has brought so much confidence in me. In 2020 I’m gona be constantly be on Tv with the @theokoyes reality tv series @dancewithpeter and @zoomupyourlife and ofcos the brand Mr P. Trust me it’s about to go down! welcome to my world”.

Honey makes the skin glow.How?

Honey is a natural humectant(retaining or preserving moisture). that will moisturize and hydrate skin.

How to use honey and raw milk for glowing skin

Popular kitchen spice, turmeric can be used as a skin-brightening face mask. When combined with other ingredients such as raw milk and honey can do wonders for your skin.

Raw milk is great for softening rough skin and hydrating dry skin.

Honey is a natural humectant that will moisturize and hydrate skin. This amazing combo will boost your skin cells and give them the gentle nourishing treatment they deserve.

Ingredients:

1/4 teaspoon turmeric powder

1 teaspoon milk

1 teaspoon honey

Directions

Clear your make up before you apply to the skin morning and evening and observe on how well your skin will become.Try and share your testimonies OK.

An anti aging Solution by Scientist

An extraordinary new anti-ageing technique could see humans live to 150 years old and allow them to regrow their organs by 2020harvard Professor David Sinclair and researchers from the University of New South Wales developed the new process, which involves reprogramming cells.

Dr Sinclair said the technique could allow people to regenerate organs, and even allow paralysis sufferers to move again, with human trials due within two years.

The same researchers also found they could increase the lifespan of mice by ten per cent by giving them a vitamin B derivative pill.

They also said the pill led to a reduction in age-related hair loss, according to The Herald Sun.

How awful a man slapped a 9 years old for playing near his house

A nine-year-old boy was knocked to the ground when he was slapped by a man, for "playing near his house".
CCTV footage shows the middle-aged man following the youngster after he goes to retrieve his football from a grocery shop in Leicester.
But as the boy starts to walk away with his ball, the man slaps him, leaving the child on the floor.
The shopkeeper said: "The man hit him from behind and knocked him down and left him like that.
"I heard the boy scream and ran outside, he was very upset and crying.
"The man said the ball hit his door and he was sick of it.
"I said 'shame on you, he's nine years old. Leave him alone'."
"I think his ball hit the man's door and the little boy ran into the shop because he was scared.
"I took the boy inside the shop then back to his family and they called the police. I gave a statement to the police on Sunday night.
"The boy has a bruise and is still very shaken up," the businessman added.
In the clip, members of the public stroll past the boy, without stopping to check he is ok.
It was shared online with the comment: "The boys were playing football in the street, as kids do.
"After that this young boy, who's nine years old, went to the shop to get his ball.
"So sad how a grown man can hit someone else's child, all because they were playing football near his house.

Tiwa Savage reveals how she overcame the crisis that Rocked her Marriage in 2016

Nigerian singer, Tiwa Savage has revealed how she overcame the crisis that rocked her marriage with her husband Tunji Balogun aka Teebillz in 2016 who accused her of sleeping around with men.

Speaking in a recent interview with Sunday Guardian, Tiwa Savage said she relied on God for help.

She said:
“My mother has always told me that, in this life, God only gives you what you can handle. It was a very trying time but God in his infinite mercies gave me the grace to see it through. It only made me stronger.”
In recent times, the couple have rekindled their love again as the husband does not miss any opportunity to praise her on social media. The duo have been pictured smiling happily on outings and also seen attending church events together with their son Jamil.
The singer’s fans have urged them on to continue in this light.

22-Year Old Girl Kills Uncle While Defending Herself From Rape

A 22-year-old lady, identified as Tina Rebecca Sunday, is being held by the police in Enugu for killing her uncle, one Friday Mathew.

The incident occurred in the Independence Layout area of Enugu on Thursday, October 26, 2017.
It was gathered that the lady, Tina, a native of Ikot Udobang Ukanafon, in Akwa Ibom State, lived with the now deceased uncle in Ezilo Street, Independence Layout, Enugu.
It was further gathered that Tina was arrested by operatives of the New Haven police station, Enugu, while attempting to escape, after committing the crime.

But the lady, in her confessional statement, has described the killing as accidental.
Tina disclosed that she killed Mathew, a 48-year-old man, while struggling to escape his attempt to have forceful carnal knowledge of her.
She said her uncle has been trying to sleep with her for a very long time.
Rebecca said she has been resisting Mathew’s amorous advances, but the uncle never gave up, until the matter took a tragic turn around 8:30 pm on October 26.
According to Tina’s account, on that fateful night, she had sent Thank-God, her uncle’s 10-year-old son on an errand to buy sugar for her, and was lying down in the room, waiting for the boy to return, when Mathew, thinking she was asleep, snuck up to her bed and tried to force himself on her.
Tina said she gave Mathew a kick on his genitals in a bid to stop him from raping her.
She added that Mathew got enraged, and both of them struggled as he moved to have his way.
The girl then got hold of stone, which she smashed on Mathew’s head.
The uncle fell down and gave up the ghost.
“Really, it was not my intention to kill him as I never intended to do so although he has been disturbing me sexually,” Tina said.
Police Public Relations Officer, Enugu State Police Command, Mr. Ebere Amaraizu, who confirmed the development, said minutes later, Mathew’s son, Thank-God, returned from the errand, only to meet his father’s lifeless body.
Amaraizu explained that Tina allegedly told the boy to keep quiet, to avoid attracting attention.
She was said to have promised the boy that she will take adequate care of him, after which she locked up the house and took Thank-God to the home of a relative.
After dropping the boy with the said relative, Tina ran away.
Amaraizu added that the 22-year-old lady was apprehended before she could leave Enugu.
“When the child of the deceased came back and met the lifeless body of his father, he was allegedly warned by the suspect not to shout in order not to attract attention which would lead to her arrest.
“She (Tina) promised the young boy that she would take care of him, then she immediately locked up the house and went away with the boy and dropped him at one of their aunt’s place and disappeared.
“When operatives of the New Haven Division of the Enugu State Command got the report, they swung into action swiftly and were able to arrest the escaping Tina Rebecca Sunday who is now helping the operatives in their investigations,” Amaraizu said.
According to him, “The suspect is now regretting her action and begging for forgiveness as she never intended to kill the uncle.”

Human Ken Doll Shows Off Surgically Enhanced Stomach

Most people spend countless hours in the gym to get abs of steel. But Human Ken Doll Rodrigo Alves took great pleasure in flaunting his surgically enhanced midsection as he went makeup shopping in Los Angeles on Wednesday.
The macho man looked as proud as punch as he showed off his $29,000 abs of plastic as he minced around the upmarket Calabasas area.
Plastics Of Hollywood personality Rodrigo has spent a whopping £400,000 on surgery over the years, earning himself the nickname The Human Ken Doll.

Man Rapes His 16-Year-Old Daughter

A 52-year-old man, Paul Akpederi, who pleaded guilty to raping his 16-year-old daughter, was, yesterday, arraigned before a Lagos Magistrate’s Court sitting in Ikeja.

Paul was docked on a one-count charge of unlawful defilement before Magistrate B. O. Osunsanmi.

The prosecutor, Inspector Simon Imhonwa, told the court that the defendant has been committing the offence since 2012 in Ikorodu, area of Lagos. According to Imhonwa, the offence is punishable under Section 137 of the Criminal Law of Lagos State, 2015.

 The defendant, however, pleaded guilty to the charge levelled against him by the Police. The defendant’s lawyer, A. O. Gbadamosi, filed an application to carry out a psychiatric test on the defendant. She told the court that the defendant was alleged to have been talking to himself and shouting over nothing. 

The prosecutor did not object to the counsel’s request, but said the medical test could have been done at the Police level. 

The Magistrate, Osunsanmi, however, granted him bail of N500,000, with two sureties in like sum, adding that the sureties must be related to the defendant. She said evidence of tax payment to Lagos State Government must be verified, and adjourned to December 6.

Criticize Yourself not

Every day we have plenty of opportunities to get angry, stressed or offended. But what you are doing when you indulge in these negative emotions is giving something outside yourself power over your happiness. You can choose to not let little things upset you. Don’t ever criticize yourself.
When you focus on being a blessing, God makes sure that you are always blessed in abundance. I believe if you keep your faith, if you keep your trust, if you keep the right attitude, if you are grateful, you will see God open up new doors.
You are going to go through tough times – that is life. But I say, nothing happens to you, it happens for you. See the positive in negative events. It is easy to get negative because you get beat
down. You go through a few disappointments and it is easy to stay in that negative frame of mind.
Choosing to be positive and having a grateful attitude is a whole cliche, but your attitude is going to determine how you are going to live your life. Let go of yesterday. Let today be a new beginning and be the best that you can, and you will get to where God wants you to be.
Don’t ever criticize yourself. Don’t go around all day long thinking, ‘I am unattractive, I am slow, I am not as smart as my brother.’ God wasn’t having a bad day when he made you… If you don’t love yourself in the right way, you can’t love your neighbor. You can’t be as good as you are supposed to be.
I believe that God has put gifts and talents and ability on the inside of every one of us. When you develop that and you believe in yourself and you believe that you are a person of influence and a person of purpose, I believe you can rise up out of any situation. I don’t think you should spend your life praying for things, but I do believe you should thank God for what He has given you… but I think the scripture teaches us that we can pray for our dreams, pray for the big things… he is not a small God; this God is incredible.

Blossom Chukwujekwu’s wife shares all she have learnt in one year of marriage

Maureen Chukwujekwu, wife of Nollywood actor Blossom Chukwujekwu, says she has learned a lot from her husband since they wedded one year ago. In celebration of their one-year wedding anniversary, Maureen took to Instagram to write about her husband and the values he has taught her.
She wrote: “I once met an Aunty of B on my first Trip to meet his Parents officially. She looked at me and said in Igbo ‘I always wondered what the woman that would win the heart of this man would look like’ and I asked why and she said also in Igbo.
“This Man U see here has the rarest and the best kind of heart, God combined the heart of his Mum and Dad and gave it to him. Fast forward to 1 Year Later and I will tell you firsthand what I have learnt from B
“I have grown to never intentionally make an enemy. I have grown to Never Gossip about anyone Good or bad. I have learnt to Give, Give and Give. I have learnt to love God and still be super crazy n fly
“I have learnt to be patient (this was hard but he was patient to put me tru it) I have learnt to try to make peace and give peace.
“I have learnt that I am beautiful, fruitful and solid. I have learnt how to give love and never hate regardless of the situation – I have learnt the value of friendship- I have learnt positivity.
“I have learnt that loyalty is key. I have learnt how powerful my tongue is. I have learnt to have a longer temper even tho sometimes I still want to bring down the roof.
“I have learnt how strong silence is – I have learnt to forgive and accept people the way they are. Oh, I can go on and on cos it’s a eryv long list, am amazed at how I got so lucky.”
The couple got married in October 2016.