When a person experiences success, fame, or just gets to live a good life, they attract admiration as well as jealousy. Jealousy is one thing that we’d be better off without. But sadly, it is one of our inherent human aspects. But if you can’t interpret why someone acts the way they do toward you, understanding how to tell if someone is jealous of you helps.
No one can say that they’ve never felt jealous at one point of their life. We live with it and hopefully when people mature, they grow out of it.
How to tell if someone is jealous of you
“Jealousy is a snake in the grass” or so folk wisdom says. It hides itself so it becomes difficult to detect unlike other obvious emotions, like anger.
And like the snake metaphor, jealousy comes from people close to us. It may come from friends, co-workers, or even family. So how does one detect the “green-eyed monster” lurking within the people around them? Here are the signs.
#1 Jealous people ply you with false praise and insincere compliments. One thing jealous people want is to let others know that they are in fact not jealous of you.
So, when the good news comes in your favor, they do the safe thing by acting supportive and giving you fake lip service. Then roll their eyes in disdain once they’re in the clear.
#2 They try to downplay your achievements. The greatest pet peeve of jealous people is when the object of their jealousy continues to achieve success.
When this happens, they want to make themselves feel better by downplaying your success by associating it to things other than your skill. Therefore, it is typical for them to say things such as “She got that promotion because she sucks up to the boss,” or “He got in because he’s connected to the manager.” They refuse to admit that you are in fact better than them.
#3 They flaunt their successes more than its actual merit. While you enjoy your achievements in humble silence, a jealous person tries to make themselves feel better by drowning out your praise by overemphasizing their own little achievements despite that it pales in comparison to yours.
#4 Jealous people deliberately give bad advice. Since they don’t want you adding more to your hall of achievements, they purposely sabotage your attempts by giving you bad advice or just plain discourage you from even trying. Remember, what they want in life is for you to fail.
#5 Jealous people imitate you. Jealous people want what you have. For them, it’s like a game of “who did it better.” Expect that person to imitate you in various ways. If you’re the pretty one who gets all the admiration, they imitate your fashion style and add their little flair to it. If you’re a good photographer, they take up photography and join competitions too.
It would actually seem like a good thing if they compete with you this way, but they are merely trying hard. Most likely, they don’t even like the things they imitate you with.
#6 They are very competitive towards you. As mentioned, it is a jealous person’s nature to outdo you in every way as to steal the glory that they think you don’t deserve. As a result they are very competitive especially if the jealous person is found in the workplace. They will go to lengths to exceed your efforts even if it’s unnecessary just to show off that they’re better.
#7 Jealous people criticize you in every aspect. Have you ever met a person who just spouts criticism at you every chance they get that it seems they look forward to it? It is very likely that the person harbors jealousy towards you.
An average person drops some criticism at some point, but jealous people make a career out of pointing out your mistakes every second of the day and in the most inappropriate of times.
#9 They celebrate your failures. Of course, they will not break into a victory dance when your boss reprimands you for a mistake, but count on it, deep inside they celebrate your failures.
First, they’ll be in an unusually good mood after your failure, and then they’ll have the guts to be friendly and ply you with fake consolation just to savor their perceived “victory” over you.
#10 They are absent during your moments of successes. The last thing a jealous person wants is to be present at a gathering celebrating another person’s success. Not only does it make them uncomfortable, it also heightens their sense of insecurity.
So, expect a jealous person to avoid moments such as this or just be elusive in case you get the chance to ask them to join in
#11 They talk behind your back. Jealous people are called “snakes in the grass” for a reason. While they are non-confrontational and may even pass off as friendly, they fight their battle against you underhandedly.
One of these is talking behind your back. They may either spread gossip, downplay your achievements like they do, or just talk crap about you behind your back.
#12 They will humiliate you in front of others. Jealous people take every chance they can to downplay your achievements or criticize you. One way that combines both is to humiliate you in front of others.
What do they achieve from this? First, they consolidate their standing as the superior person, and second, they reduce your credibility by doing this in front of others. It’s a win-win situation for them.
#13 They just hate you for no reason at all. Let’s admit it. Jealous people won’t admit that they’re jealous of you because it adds to their insecurity. And for this fact, they hate you at every aspect and show this hate in any way possible. Even if it doesn’t make sense at all.
Jealousy is a poisonous character that can really terminate ones life if you act on it really.Do not let it grow in you it is very disastrous.
Source: panky.com
Friday, 21 April 2017
The football player Yobo and family.....SOoooooooooooo Cute
Skazyupdate
Adaeze Yobo has revealed the face of her cute daughter, Lxine Dumlesi
Yobo. The former beauty queen who welcomed her first daughter with Yobo
in February, took to her page to share some beautiful photos of her baby
girl. More pictures...
Adequate exercise sure evidence of good living and good eating habit
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The importance of Physical fitness cannot be neglected. Adequate exercise and good eating habit will guarantee sound health and physical fitness.
A person who is fit is capable of living life to the fullest extent. Physical and mental fitness plays a very important role in our day-to-day lives. People who are both physically and mentally fit are less prone to medical conditions.
If you are able to incorporate some aerobic exercise into your daily lifestyle choices, you can live drug-free and improve your brain health by producing irisin (an exercise hormone linked with improved health). This adds one more reason we should all try to make some type of aerobic exercise a part of our daily routine most days of the week.
Your health challenges can be reversed through proper exercise routine. Improving your physical and mental fitness also enhances sound health as well as help in correcting health challenges.
We at Gategold specialist specialise in getting you to attain that peak of physical and mental wellness by providing you with professional advice and all the equipment needed to get you to that level. Whether it’s for personal use or for commercial purposes – we have all you need. All our products consist of trusted brands that guarantee quality, durability and affordability. We also offer maintenance and repair services and we will deliver to you within Nigeria at a very minimal cost. Gategold remains the leading fitness brand specializing in Sales, Distribution, Maintenance and Repairs of Commercial/Home Fitness, Exercise, Gym and Sports Equipment, we equally stock our fitness equipment Spare Parts. We specialize in designing and building state-of-the-art fitness centre from concept through completion.
Please visit our showroom at 94, Ogunlana Drive, Surulere, Lagos.
Or Call our Hotline: 08033293090
Other Branches:
Lekki (08143202778), Abuja (08148413444), Abuja II (08137754884), Onitsha (08036319882)
Email: gategoldfitness@yahoo.com
www.gategoldfitnessproducts.com
The importance of Physical fitness cannot be neglected. Adequate exercise and good eating habit will guarantee sound health and physical fitness.
A person who is fit is capable of living life to the fullest extent. Physical and mental fitness plays a very important role in our day-to-day lives. People who are both physically and mentally fit are less prone to medical conditions.
If you are able to incorporate some aerobic exercise into your daily lifestyle choices, you can live drug-free and improve your brain health by producing irisin (an exercise hormone linked with improved health). This adds one more reason we should all try to make some type of aerobic exercise a part of our daily routine most days of the week.
Your health challenges can be reversed through proper exercise routine. Improving your physical and mental fitness also enhances sound health as well as help in correcting health challenges.
We at Gategold specialist specialise in getting you to attain that peak of physical and mental wellness by providing you with professional advice and all the equipment needed to get you to that level. Whether it’s for personal use or for commercial purposes – we have all you need. All our products consist of trusted brands that guarantee quality, durability and affordability. We also offer maintenance and repair services and we will deliver to you within Nigeria at a very minimal cost. Gategold remains the leading fitness brand specializing in Sales, Distribution, Maintenance and Repairs of Commercial/Home Fitness, Exercise, Gym and Sports Equipment, we equally stock our fitness equipment Spare Parts. We specialize in designing and building state-of-the-art fitness centre from concept through completion.
Please visit our showroom at 94, Ogunlana Drive, Surulere, Lagos.
Or Call our Hotline: 08033293090
Other Branches:
Lekki (08143202778), Abuja (08148413444), Abuja II (08137754884), Onitsha (08036319882)
Email: gategoldfitness@yahoo.com
www.gategoldfitnessproducts.com
Adequate exercise sure evidence of good living and good eating habit
Skazyupdate
The importance of Physical fitness cannot be neglected. Adequate exercise and good eating habit will guarantee sound health and physical fitness.
A person who is fit is capable of living life to the fullest extent. Physical and mental fitness plays a very important role in our day-to-day lives. People who are both physically and mentally fit are less prone to medical conditions.
If you are able to incorporate some aerobic exercise into your daily lifestyle choices, you can live drug-free and improve your brain health by producing irisin (an exercise hormone linked with improved health). This adds one more reason we should all try to make some type of aerobic exercise a part of our daily routine most days of the week.
The importance of Physical fitness cannot be neglected. Adequate exercise and good eating habit will guarantee sound health and physical fitness.
A person who is fit is capable of living life to the fullest extent. Physical and mental fitness plays a very important role in our day-to-day lives. People who are both physically and mentally fit are less prone to medical conditions.
If you are able to incorporate some aerobic exercise into your daily lifestyle choices, you can live drug-free and improve your brain health by producing irisin (an exercise hormone linked with improved health). This adds one more reason we should all try to make some type of aerobic exercise a part of our daily routine most days of the week.
Thursday, 20 April 2017
Charlie murphys burial and friends that came around to pay condolence to Eddie murphy
Skazyupdate
Late Charlie Murphy was
laid to rest yesterday in New York at a very private ceremony. His
brother Eddie Murphy and many of his colleagues including DL Hughley,
Cedric The Entertainer, George Lopez, Eddie Griffin,
Dave Chapelle, Jay Pharoah, Capone, Terry Hodges, and more there.
How to Tell if Someone is Jealous of You
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Not sure why they treat you the way they do? Maybe they’re just jealous! Wondering how to tell if someone is jealous of you? Watch for these signs.
By Paul Mangay
How to Tell if Someone is Jealous of You
Skazyupdate
Not sure why they
treat you the way they do? Maybe they’re just jealous! Wondering how to
tell if someone is jealous of you? Watch for these signs.
By Paul Mangay
Lovely photos of Dija son
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Its not everyday we get to see the cute son of Mavin princess, Di'ja. The 'Sowemo' crooner reportedly showed him off just 3 months ago and since then most of her fans have lost clue of what the little prince looks like.
The proud mum who got married to her heartthrob, Rotimi last year took to Snapchat to share some lovely cute photos of her son. 'Cant believe am a mum to Bad Man K' she captioned.
Cutie!!
The proud mum who got married to her heartthrob, Rotimi last year took to Snapchat to share some lovely cute photos of her son. 'Cant believe am a mum to Bad Man K' she captioned.
Cutie!!
Lovely photos of Dija son
Skazyupdate
Its not everyday we get to see the cute son of Mavin princess, Di'ja.
The 'Sowemo' crooner reportedly showed him off just 3 months ago and
since then most of her fans have lost clue of what the little prince
looks like.
The proud mum who got married to her heartthrob, Rotimi last year took to Snapchat to share some lovely cute photos of her son. 'Cant believe am a mum to Bad Man K' she captioned.
The proud mum who got married to her heartthrob, Rotimi last year took to Snapchat to share some lovely cute photos of her son. 'Cant believe am a mum to Bad Man K' she captioned.
Arsene Wenger will leave on may or might not
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Arsenal football manager Arsene Wenger admits recent fans protests against him will influence his decision to leave Arsenal in the summer. Wenger's contract expires at the end of the season in May, 2017.
"I work very hard for 25 years to make the fans happy. I understand they are not when we lose. I don't want to judge that. I am not able to. I've said many times you have to accept different opinions. I don't work for my image. I work for the club with full commitment. How will I be judged? It's not too much my problem. I think I have shown since I am here that I love this club, that I'm loyal to this club and I make the right decisions for this club, and I will continue to do that, in respecting the values that are vital to me." said Wenger
Arsene Wenger has announced he will wait until the end of the season with to announce whether he will leave or stay at Arsenal.
"I work very hard for 25 years to make the fans happy. I understand they are not when we lose. I don't want to judge that. I am not able to. I've said many times you have to accept different opinions. I don't work for my image. I work for the club with full commitment. How will I be judged? It's not too much my problem. I think I have shown since I am here that I love this club, that I'm loyal to this club and I make the right decisions for this club, and I will continue to do that, in respecting the values that are vital to me." said Wenger
Arsene Wenger has announced he will wait until the end of the season with to announce whether he will leave or stay at Arsenal.
Arsene Wenger will leave on may or might not
Skazyupdate
Arsenal football manager Arsene Wenger admits recent fans protests
against him will influence his decision to leave Arsenal in the summer.
Wenger's contract expires at the end of the season in May, 2017.
A Gateman promoted to a Teacher in a school
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A Head Teacher with the Cross River State Universal Basic Education Board, SUBEB, on Grade Level 13 has been demoted to the post of a gate man on Grade Level 04, while 758 others were sent to lower grade levels for using fake certificates to gain employment into the service.
Dr. Stephen Odey, Chairman of SUBEB, told Vanguard in Calabar that over 758 teachers with fake certificates and 700 ghost teachers were uncovered during screening across the state.
He said: “We got a lot of petitions from stakeholders intimating us about the presence of teachers in the system who are using fake certificates and we had to embark on a screening of the teachers across the state and what we saw was marvelous.”
Dr. Odey said the fake certificates have been confiscated from their owners. He added that although no punitive measures, apart from demotions and suspensions, would be applied on the culprits, measures have been put in place to ensure that recruitment into the state teaching service is devoid of malpractices and fake certificate syndrome as in the past.
“If we sacked all the teachers with fake certificates, the crime rate in the state will increase and also the governor of the state believes that there should be food on the table of everyone in the state.
“So we had to mete out justice with mercy by only demoting them, which is quite traumatizing.”
He revealed that those with genuine certificates are being promoted, while some who were employed as security men and care-givers, but have acquired additional qualifications, have been redeployed as class teachers.
Dr. Stephen Odey, Chairman of SUBEB, told Vanguard in Calabar that over 758 teachers with fake certificates and 700 ghost teachers were uncovered during screening across the state.
He said: “We got a lot of petitions from stakeholders intimating us about the presence of teachers in the system who are using fake certificates and we had to embark on a screening of the teachers across the state and what we saw was marvelous.”
Dr. Odey said the fake certificates have been confiscated from their owners. He added that although no punitive measures, apart from demotions and suspensions, would be applied on the culprits, measures have been put in place to ensure that recruitment into the state teaching service is devoid of malpractices and fake certificate syndrome as in the past.
“If we sacked all the teachers with fake certificates, the crime rate in the state will increase and also the governor of the state believes that there should be food on the table of everyone in the state.
“So we had to mete out justice with mercy by only demoting them, which is quite traumatizing.”
He revealed that those with genuine certificates are being promoted, while some who were employed as security men and care-givers, but have acquired additional qualifications, have been redeployed as class teachers.
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